advice column

Dear Rey: On Protests and Trans Futures

How to honor our future selves through safety practices

Jun 28, 2025 • Rey Resendez

Dear Rey: On Activism and Burnout

How to sustain ourselves and protect our communities

Jun 4, 2025 • Rey Resendez

Dear Rey: On Ethical Queer Dating

Holding space for the questions that love leaves behind

May 22, 2025 • Rey Resendez and Javi Da Yoga Therapist

Dear Rey: On Allyship and Accessibility

Showing up for community by any means necessary

May 10, 2025 • Rey Resendez

Dear Rey: On Finances and Moving

Finding a way forward when moving feels out of reach

May 3, 2025 • Rey Resendez

Dear Rey: On Dysphoria and Intimacy

What it means to want closeness while protecting your own body

Apr 16, 2025 • Rey Resendez

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